Benji helped us collecting rotten apples, stones and weed and copied Richard sawing some banches off the tree. Of course not with a real saw, but with a little stick he was bashing our bamboo bush :)
I managed to get them together for the sake of a photo as well. Very rare opportunity as usually he starts winging nowadays if we try to take picture of him/them ("I don't want cheeeese")
He is very timid nowadays, or I rather say scared of new situations, and starts winging if he doesn't like something (or worse case scenario he stars crying, screaming loudly).
I am little worried about it, as we have been in a birthday party of one his little friends yesterday,and there was everything a kid could want: bouncy castle, toys, balloons, little chairs, and little table full of sweets and treats. But instead he didn't move from our shadow and of course "I dont want jump jump, I dont want cake...etc" In the end Richard managed to persuade him to get into the bouncy castle with him, but only when noone else was inside, and he only approached the table when everyone else have stood up. He didn't really warm up for the 1.5 hour we have been there.
I feel sorry for him, but I don't want to push him something he doesn't want to do. I just hope it will change by school for his own sake and that it is not something serious.
Richard is probably right, that what should we expect when both of us were really quiet ones when we were little and this probably have just added up in Benji.
Our Little One has become 7 months on 1st of March as well.
He started pulling himself along on his arms like a little seal, reaches for everything, he is actually quite strong. I think he is not far from crawling, he is lifting his bottom up in the air, and rocking himself back and forth.
He is very smiley, his whole face smiles whenever he spots me, his lips, eyes stretches for a big smile and his little ears go upwards. Very cute.
His sleeping is very rhapsodical he started again waking up at 2am and 4-5ish as well. Although I hope this is only temporary because they both a little bit snotty and he can't breath at night and thats why he wakes up.
He is eating very well (carrots, potatoes chestnuts, pears, mango, peach..etc, today ate his first little piece of chicken too), his drinking is the same as Benji was at this age, he only drinks a gulp of water, he rather has his formula still to drink.
Thursday the health visitor will come and I will ask how heavy he is, but I bet he is around 10kg now,..
They also started to get on better and better together. Benji finds Robin as a little partner now in games (they push cars together, or shows his books to him), he is rarely jealous, mostly only when Robin happens to find one of his cars or toys, and of course Benji wants that toy there and than, and can grab it really hard off Robin.
But I hear the sentence "Look Mummy I play with Robin" more and more, which really means that he lies or sits next to him and looks into Robin's face really really close.
But he kisses him quite often or tries ticking or stroking him, or making his clown moves to him which Robin loves and appreciates with big giggles, "Look Mummy, he likes this"
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